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Teach Through Love
United States
Приєднався 27 тра 2010
Hi! I'm Lori Petro, and I help parents, caregivers, and educators connect, collaborate, and communicate with children. The Teach Through Love cards and courses provide practical and developmentally appropriate tools and ideas to help you create stronger relationships and build more influence with your kids.
Stop yelling, arguing, and handing out consequences that don't work - and start CONNECTING through RELATIONSHIP. Subscribe to be notified of new videos.
Children need to be nurtured in emotionally safe environments, and looking at behavior through a non-punitive, trauma-informed lens offers a new understanding of why they behave the way they do.
A compassionate approach to communication and parenting provides families and professionals daily opportunities to strengthen relationships and sustainable strategies to help their children regulate stress and build the skills they need to thrive.
Stop yelling, arguing, and handing out consequences that don't work - and start CONNECTING through RELATIONSHIP. Subscribe to be notified of new videos.
Children need to be nurtured in emotionally safe environments, and looking at behavior through a non-punitive, trauma-informed lens offers a new understanding of why they behave the way they do.
A compassionate approach to communication and parenting provides families and professionals daily opportunities to strengthen relationships and sustainable strategies to help their children regulate stress and build the skills they need to thrive.
3 Steps to Being a More Peaceful and Confident Parent
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💬💙 bit.ly/CommunicationCardsHere - Check out my card decks for toddlers through teens and learn how to shift demands and reasoning into connection and cooperation.
🌱 bit.ly/ConsciousParentingAcademy - Sign up for my FREE #ConsciousParenting Academy, and I'll show you how to put the theory of "conscious parenting" into action!
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🌈 Change Your Relationship with Your Kids in 10 Days!
CLICK HERE (free download) - 🔗 www.ChaosToCooperation.com
Welcome! I'm Lori, and I founded Teach Through Love because I'm passionate about helping adults resolve daily conflicts and nurture children's development by using conscious communication.
Parents, teachers, and caregivers are the most influential people in a child's life. My Conscious Parenting Courses and Communication Cards have helped thousands of parents and professionals break free of reactive patterns and unconscious beliefs about "discipline" that keep them stuck in negative cycles with kids.
I want to help adults increase cooperation and connection by communicating in ways that help kids feel heard and capable of change. We can help them reach their full potential and learn to solve conflicts and collaborate with others when we shift how we respond to their needs and feelings.
Lori Petro I TEACH through Love
Author / Educator / Child Advocate
Connect with me on:
Website: www.teach-through-love.com
Instagram: teachthroughlove
Facebook: TeachThroughLove
UA-cam: ua-cam.com/users/TeachThroughLove
Twitter: @TeachThruLove
Subscribe for Updates & I'll send you my NEW FREE Training.
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#EffectiveParenting
Need More Peaceful Solutions for You and Your Kids? 👉🏻 courses.teach-through-love.com/courses/peaceful-solutions-for-parents-kids
👉🏻 www.teach-through-love.com 🔆 10 Days to More Cooperation
💬💙 bit.ly/CommunicationCardsHere - Check out my card decks for toddlers through teens and learn how to shift demands and reasoning into connection and cooperation.
🌱 bit.ly/ConsciousParentingAcademy - Sign up for my FREE #ConsciousParenting Academy, and I'll show you how to put the theory of "conscious parenting" into action!
📣 courses.teach-through-love.com#subscribe - Join my community to watch the full video and access our monthly live calls.
✨Host Your Own Parenting Classes 🔗 bit.ly/BECOMEAPARENTEDUCATOR
🌈 Change Your Relationship with Your Kids in 10 Days!
CLICK HERE (free download) - 🔗 www.ChaosToCooperation.com
Welcome! I'm Lori, and I founded Teach Through Love because I'm passionate about helping adults resolve daily conflicts and nurture children's development by using conscious communication.
Parents, teachers, and caregivers are the most influential people in a child's life. My Conscious Parenting Courses and Communication Cards have helped thousands of parents and professionals break free of reactive patterns and unconscious beliefs about "discipline" that keep them stuck in negative cycles with kids.
I want to help adults increase cooperation and connection by communicating in ways that help kids feel heard and capable of change. We can help them reach their full potential and learn to solve conflicts and collaborate with others when we shift how we respond to their needs and feelings.
Lori Petro I TEACH through Love
Author / Educator / Child Advocate
Connect with me on:
Website: www.teach-through-love.com
Instagram: teachthroughlove
Facebook: TeachThroughLove
UA-cam: ua-cam.com/users/TeachThroughLove
Twitter: @TeachThruLove
Subscribe for Updates & I'll send you my NEW FREE Training.
#TeachThroughLove
#ConsciousCommunication
#ConsciousNotPerfect #ConsciousParenting #CommunicationTips #SelfRegulation #SEL #EmotionalIntelligence #UnconditionalParenting #ConsciousCommunicationCards #ParentEducator #UnderstandingChildren #HighlySensitiveKids #HSP #AS #ND #NeurodivergentKids #ADHD #Neurodivergent #CommunicatingWithKids #ConsciousParentingClasses #OnlineParentingClass #ParentingClass
#Parent #ConsciousParent #ParentingAutisticGirls #GentleParentingAutism #NeurodivergentParenting #ParentingJourney #SensitiveParent #ParentEducator #ParentingAutisticKids
#ParentingAdvice #ParentingChallenges #ParentingTips #ParentingToolsAndTips #ParentingQandA
#ParentingAdvice101 #TipsForParents #VideoTipsForParents
#ParentingInsights #Parenting101 #ParentingTipsandTricks
#CommunicatingWithKids #RespectfulLimits #ParentTalk101 #KidsCommunicationTips #ParentingAdvice #BetterParentChildCommunication #EffectiveParentingTips #HowtoTalktoKids #EmpatheticCommunication #ParentingWithLove #ImprovingParentChildDialogue #ConnectWithYourKids #FamilyCommunicationSkills
#MindfulParenting #PositiveParenting #GentleParenting #RespectfulParenting
#EffectiveParenting
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Not saying talking to your child doesn't work in some cases but not all sometimes you you have to use a different type of parenting i see why so many teachers are quiting most children in school now have no respect
Wow I would not want to be friends with those kids growing up. Children need being challenged and having push back for when they are sn adult
Bit is it okay to express your limits in a more serious tone? Someone told me it was not so I wanna explore jpw others think about that.
This behaviour keeps occuring as long as parents give the child what they want when they scream. Or when they give in when they scream
I actually thought "gentle parenting" was a joke to make fun of Gen Z... can't believe it's real! In fact, I know it's not real in yhe privacy of their homes, or when there's no camera on them.
i needed this today ❤
In 7:27 child is described as she but why?
this video is 10 year old and it was common to alternate the pronouns because "he" was typiclly the default. It wasn't common to use they as a singular. Also this is a Q submitted by a parent so it might have referred to that.
The look at me hit home. I avoid eye contact like it will burn me. I have learned to look at people's foreheads instead of their eyes because to seems like I'm looking them in the eye without the intense cringe factor
I think people don’t know the difference between punishment and abuse
My son is a very sweet boy. When first put him school. He’s frustrated. Teacher complained he want him to be perfect. Also school diagnosed Matt autism. So we agree put him at special school. Before no one still if he’s autistic now he looks worse I’m frustrated. I feel like I failed my child😢
I don’t have autism, but I have anxiety. I freeze up, get shaky, and get quiet and don’t talk as much sometimes. Could I still use communication cards?
Pick your battles but Absolutely don't sit back while your kid is being a doormat and letting another kid bully them. Sorry, but not sorry. You allowing them to be a victim is telling them it's ok for others to treat them poorly. Teach them first how to speak up by being the example. Teach them assertiveness. Let them disagree and say no but step in when they are being mistreated. They will have plenty of opportunities when you're not around to practice.
This is helpful. It's ok to disagree as long as it's respectful.
Thank you. Before I was feeling guilty that my kids hitting in daycare and he just 2.5 now I understand what he might going through. Before make him calm down. First I need to calmly listen to him. You gave me a different perspective to think rather than blaming my kid. Thank you for bringing up the facts about hitting. I am little relief now
Loved our conversation, Lori!
Thank you so much for your insight, I appreciate this video!
You always help me so much!
I must say, as an autistic woman, I understand that sometimes words can hurt any child or adult with disabilities.
thank you for ur consistency on posting this kind of topic..and also its very relate and quite thorough perspective
Nice
Yours is the first video which I could actually relate to... I'm having major problems with my 7 year old genius level son just as explained in this video and I am desperate for help. I blame myself and have tried everything I could think off! I don't know what to do anymore!
Same here 😔
Promo sm 😊
I WANT THE CARDS 🥰😘
Thank you both so much for this. What advice do you have for single parents who don’t have the option to Tap Out?
@ChrissyLynn thank you so much for watching! It's definitely more difficult without support. I would say it's okay to walk away and take care of yourself as long as your child is safe. We can say, "I feel overwhelmed, I'm going to take a minute and be right back." - instead of staying and trying to help while dysregulated. And when you can't avoid it or have no help (it's OKAY!) - repair, repair, repair :)
My son has been diagnosed of autism spectrum since childand has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him improve from all autistic traits completely.
Great! Thank you.
You're welcome. Thank you so much for watching!
linked to original content pls ?
You can find it on Star Talk Radio - Neil deGrasse Tyson's podcast.
Thanks for the video, but I couldnt find anything for a case where a toddler starts hitting your eyes at the most positive and loving moments and follow it with a laughter. He has no aggression at all just having fun. How can you stop her from hitting your eyes? My eyes are truly hurting!
Thanks so much for watching. I don't remember what I said in this video but I would say set a physical boundary and create space. Move away. Hitting is a common stage and it can be redirected but it takes repetition. They can't always "stop" because we ask. At that age, the impulse control is not well developed and it takes time (and also repeatedly setting the limit. I" don't like that It hurts my eyes. I'm going to move back so I don't get hit." etc.
Zero context. Yeah thats helpful
How about when they hit mom ?
A lot of autistic kids have autistic parents that are not going to be good parents
Adlerian psychology 🙌🏻 1912
So lost where is the rest of the video
Hi @lolagirl5759, This video clip is from my monthly Q&A. The full recording is available when you sign up for access to the live calls and recordings. courses.teach-through-love.com/courses/parenting-support-q-a-archive-ks
“Look at me!” was used by my mother in order to then force me to do her will. She attempted to break my will. Learning to clear and strengthen my solar plexus now. The 3rd chakra is the will center.
Harsh handling. Impatience. Derogatory remarks. Ridicule of my body. Yelled at for practically everything. Narcissists should never be parents but they become one to have power over their children.
Hitting is very illegal
Another thing you should NEVER say to an autistic child is “Grow up/stop acting like a child/you’re too old for that!!” Gets on my nerves whenever I’m told that.
Our mothers came from the same mold.
Thank you for your wisdom on this difficult topic and for sharing it. Subscribed!
Welcome! Thanks so much for the sub!
Wow wow wow wow. Thank you so much. I needed this so much. You rock!
You are so welcome
It’s been a struggle lately This is much needed ❤ Thank you Lori! You’re a gem!
Aww. You’re welcome! Thank you so much for watching! 💙
My child has alot of behaviors but I've been trying to understand that some it's because of adhd and she has had a few surgeries that probably have traumatized her
Some kids just are to much. no matter what you do or say
Id say its more about effective communication and actually talking to your children respectfully and not looking down on them. Theyre human too
Ok, thanks
I wish you were my son's teacher. This video is identical to the letter I got today for my 6 year old
Aww I’m so sorry. It’s rough for teachers who are overworked and have too many students and it’s NOT your child’s fault that they’re struggling in environments that are dysregulating!
Wow. I affirm my children and pray for them all the way. They usually had a great day. But they knew the drill I guess.
Nobody cares
You cared enough to comment. 🙌🏼 thanks for watching!
I have a feeling you and your daughter had an argument.
No. This was just a funny. #ParentingTeens 😂🫶🏼
Good morning mom your daughter doesn't want to talk to you either
That was the point of the funny! 🤷🏻♀️
Mmm, do i see a "positive " mother here? Come here for a week!
I didn't see a difference lol😅